One of the hardest things in the world is making a woman have an orgasm. The main point is that the main area is usually smaller than a dime and needs a great deal of stimulation.
For guys, Mr. Johnson doesn't need that much to launch the rocket if you know what I mean. There are many different ways to launch, especially since as men, it is constantly on our minds.
Launching her rocket is more difficult because it's hidden. You have to prepare it.
You have to make the time to satisfy her.
You aren't going to always be successful. But she will appreciate the time and the extra effort that you put into pleasing her rather than just thinking about yourself.
But if you are constantly giving up on her having an orgasm, especially the kind where she might actually squirt (though rare it's effect on women are amazing),
she is going to resent it. The more she doesn't orgasm, the more she will resent sex.
She will continue to have sex with you because she understands that it is an important part of a relationship, but she will start to hate it. Additionally, if she’s having sex with little pleasure, you may feel closer to her, but she will be frustrated with you.
This also will affect her attitude. She may be angrier with you and quick to be nasty.
Why? Well how are you went you haven't shot the rocket off in a month?
Orgasms also are a way to release tension, so naturally she is going to be upset!
If a woman’s clitoris is not getting a consistent work out, there is not much incentive to have sex. When she’s coming on a regular basis, then her clit can’t wait to be touched! If you give her the proper stimulation, she may actually be begging you for sex every once in a while! Otherwise she may look elsewhere!
So, think about it. When you are with your partner ,be willing to try different things.
If she doesn't like it, she will tell you. Don't Be Afraid To Ask Her What SHE WANTS!
You both might be pleasantly surprised by the results!
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Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Friday, January 22, 2010
The Truth About Foreplay
Get In, Get Off, Get Out
How Your Friends Ruined Your Sex Life
Where did you learn about sex? Health class? Your dad? But where did you learn about having sex? When we were kids, a lot of us got in on a street corner. A famous comic strip said "I heard from Eddie Jones who said that a friend of a friends brother said he did it."
A lot of your early knowledge of intercourse probably came from your buddies, especially the ones who claimed to be getting some. They may have been "doing it, but they got there info from guys how may have said they were getting a lot of sex and really weren't.
Unfortunately for women everywhere, a lot of this locker room talk has no merit, yet sticks in the sexual psyche of the American male. Here are some things your buddies have bragged about, and shouldn’t have.
He felt that the size of his penis made him a better lover!
Men seem to think that the bigger the penis the better. Guess what guys, size doesn’t matter that much. There are so many ways to pleasure a woman, and penetration is actually the least effective. As we have said before, only 25% of women orgasm during intercourse. That doesn’t mean that 75% of men have tiny, unsatisfying penises, it just means that it’s difficult for women to have an orgasm during sex. So most of a woman’s climaxing happens during what you consider “foreplay,” which happens before your penis even touches her.
He told you he went down on some girl “for, like, two hours.”
This one even he may actually believe. When a man realizes a woman is going to let him stick his penis in her, every second leading up to that desirous act feels like an hour. It’s not. Most men also think that performing oral sex on a woman is just something you do to get her wet enough to handle your impressive member. Not true. What you consider foreplay is, to her, part of the sexual experience as a whole. Instead of rushing through it so you can get to the “actual sex part,” keep yourself tuned into her responses. Go with the flow. Pleasuring her can be pleasuring yourself. And remember, women aren’t one-hit-and-quit like men when it comes to orgasms. They can have multiple orgasms. So if you start the orgasm train early, she will definitely be impressed.
He brags about how long he can last.
This is a myth. Women do not want a man who can penetrate her continuously over the course of several hours. The genital area is home to some extremely delicate tissue, and the body can only produce so much lubrication. This is not to say that women don’t like sexual acts that last over the course of several hours. For a woman, sex begins the minute the decision is made to have the sex. This kissing, the caressing, and the dirty talk are as important to her as the penetration itself. If you allow yourself to be a part of that, you may be surprised at how intense the sexual experience can be for the both of you!
Click here to learn more ways to improve your love life
How Your Friends Ruined Your Sex Life
Where did you learn about sex? Health class? Your dad? But where did you learn about having sex? When we were kids, a lot of us got in on a street corner. A famous comic strip said "I heard from Eddie Jones who said that a friend of a friends brother said he did it."
A lot of your early knowledge of intercourse probably came from your buddies, especially the ones who claimed to be getting some. They may have been "doing it, but they got there info from guys how may have said they were getting a lot of sex and really weren't.
Unfortunately for women everywhere, a lot of this locker room talk has no merit, yet sticks in the sexual psyche of the American male. Here are some things your buddies have bragged about, and shouldn’t have.
He felt that the size of his penis made him a better lover!
Men seem to think that the bigger the penis the better. Guess what guys, size doesn’t matter that much. There are so many ways to pleasure a woman, and penetration is actually the least effective. As we have said before, only 25% of women orgasm during intercourse. That doesn’t mean that 75% of men have tiny, unsatisfying penises, it just means that it’s difficult for women to have an orgasm during sex. So most of a woman’s climaxing happens during what you consider “foreplay,” which happens before your penis even touches her.
He told you he went down on some girl “for, like, two hours.”
This one even he may actually believe. When a man realizes a woman is going to let him stick his penis in her, every second leading up to that desirous act feels like an hour. It’s not. Most men also think that performing oral sex on a woman is just something you do to get her wet enough to handle your impressive member. Not true. What you consider foreplay is, to her, part of the sexual experience as a whole. Instead of rushing through it so you can get to the “actual sex part,” keep yourself tuned into her responses. Go with the flow. Pleasuring her can be pleasuring yourself. And remember, women aren’t one-hit-and-quit like men when it comes to orgasms. They can have multiple orgasms. So if you start the orgasm train early, she will definitely be impressed.
He brags about how long he can last.
This is a myth. Women do not want a man who can penetrate her continuously over the course of several hours. The genital area is home to some extremely delicate tissue, and the body can only produce so much lubrication. This is not to say that women don’t like sexual acts that last over the course of several hours. For a woman, sex begins the minute the decision is made to have the sex. This kissing, the caressing, and the dirty talk are as important to her as the penetration itself. If you allow yourself to be a part of that, you may be surprised at how intense the sexual experience can be for the both of you!
Click here to learn more ways to improve your love life
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Don't Underestimate Her Orgasm
If you have been on the sexual scene for several years, then you have probably heard this before...
* 75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse.
This does not mean that they cant have an orgasm. It simply means that they don't have orgasms while you are lying on top of them grunting and bumping and grinding.
One of the most important reasons to understand female orgasm is so that you can show your partner that you are a considerate lover and make your sex life better.
The four stages of female orgasm that you have to be familiar with are as follows...
1) Excitement
2) Plateau
3) Orgasm
4) Resolution
Lets examine them;
Excitement
So what happens when you are excited? Blood rushes to your penis, and it gets hard. It is similar for women. Blood rushes to her genitals causing her clitoris to swell and her vagina to increase in diameter and length. Her body produces lubrication, i.e. she gets wet. While this doesn’t happen as quickly as it does to you, the extra wait time is WORTH IT!
Plateau
The term plateau gives the impression that there is not a lot happening. On the contrary, there is a lot going on. Your heart rate and your breathing speed up. Blood is congested in your genitals, waiting to blow. This is the same for her. Listen to her breathing and feel her heart rate. If you don’t notice a change, go back to step one.
Orgasm
Now here is where men and women differ. Men have a Point of No Return (PNR). This is when there is no stopping a man. He is going to orgasm even if the most ugly woman in the world walks into the room. Women do not have this. A woman can be a split second away from orgasm, and it may be interrupted. She must be stimulated all the way through her orgasm or she will lose it!
After this, there is the cooling down period. That is the part where you’ve cum, you may still be hard, but you are definitely not climaxing again. Once again, women do not have a cooling down period! They go back to the plateau stage. This confuses men. To them, the orgasm is the end game. Once it’s achieved, the act is over. For women, they’re just getting started. Each proceeding orgasm is more intense than the previous. Given proper stimulation, a woman can reach an “orgasm cloud” where her orgasms are so strong and so continuous, that they seemingly blend into one constant orgasm.
The Resolution
After the cooling down period comes the Resolution. This is the part where you’re blissfully snoring before the condom even comes off. Since women don’t go through the cooling down stage, Resolution begins once stimulation has ended. If you have satisfied her sexually, you have flooded her brain with endorphins, the happiness hormone. That means she will be happier with you, less likely to be angered by your dirty socks on the floor. Well, at least for a few hours anyway.
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* 75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse.
This does not mean that they cant have an orgasm. It simply means that they don't have orgasms while you are lying on top of them grunting and bumping and grinding.
One of the most important reasons to understand female orgasm is so that you can show your partner that you are a considerate lover and make your sex life better.
The four stages of female orgasm that you have to be familiar with are as follows...
1) Excitement
2) Plateau
3) Orgasm
4) Resolution
Lets examine them;
Excitement
So what happens when you are excited? Blood rushes to your penis, and it gets hard. It is similar for women. Blood rushes to her genitals causing her clitoris to swell and her vagina to increase in diameter and length. Her body produces lubrication, i.e. she gets wet. While this doesn’t happen as quickly as it does to you, the extra wait time is WORTH IT!
Plateau
The term plateau gives the impression that there is not a lot happening. On the contrary, there is a lot going on. Your heart rate and your breathing speed up. Blood is congested in your genitals, waiting to blow. This is the same for her. Listen to her breathing and feel her heart rate. If you don’t notice a change, go back to step one.
Orgasm
Now here is where men and women differ. Men have a Point of No Return (PNR). This is when there is no stopping a man. He is going to orgasm even if the most ugly woman in the world walks into the room. Women do not have this. A woman can be a split second away from orgasm, and it may be interrupted. She must be stimulated all the way through her orgasm or she will lose it!
After this, there is the cooling down period. That is the part where you’ve cum, you may still be hard, but you are definitely not climaxing again. Once again, women do not have a cooling down period! They go back to the plateau stage. This confuses men. To them, the orgasm is the end game. Once it’s achieved, the act is over. For women, they’re just getting started. Each proceeding orgasm is more intense than the previous. Given proper stimulation, a woman can reach an “orgasm cloud” where her orgasms are so strong and so continuous, that they seemingly blend into one constant orgasm.
The Resolution
After the cooling down period comes the Resolution. This is the part where you’re blissfully snoring before the condom even comes off. Since women don’t go through the cooling down stage, Resolution begins once stimulation has ended. If you have satisfied her sexually, you have flooded her brain with endorphins, the happiness hormone. That means she will be happier with you, less likely to be angered by your dirty socks on the floor. Well, at least for a few hours anyway.
http://bit.ly/4UxoyK
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