Don't Underestimate Her Orgasm

 If you have been on the sexual scene for several years, then you have probably heard this before...

* 75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse.
This does not mean that they cant have an orgasm. It simply means that they don't have orgasms while you are lying on top of them grunting and bumping and grinding.


One of the most important reasons to understand female orgasm is so that you can show your partner that you are a considerate lover and make your sex life better.

The four stages of female orgasm that you have to be familiar with are as follows...

1)     Excitement
2)     Plateau
3)     Orgasm
4)     Resolution
Lets examine them;

 Excitement
So what happens when you are excited?  Blood rushes to your penis, and it gets hard.  It is similar for women.  Blood rushes to her genitals causing her clitoris to swell and her vagina to increase in diameter and length.  Her body produces lubrication, i.e. she gets wet.  While this doesn’t happen as quickly as it does to you, the extra wait time is WORTH IT!

Plateau
The term plateau gives the impression that there is not a lot happening.  On the contrary, there is a lot going on.  Your heart rate and your breathing speed up.  Blood is congested in your genitals, waiting to blow.  This is the same for her.  Listen to her breathing and feel her heart rate.  If you don’t notice a change, go back to step one.
Orgasm
Now here is where men and women differ.  Men have a Point of No Return (PNR).  This is when there is no stopping a man.  He is going to orgasm even if the most ugly woman in the world walks into the room.  Women do not have this.  A woman can be a split second away from orgasm, and it may be interrupted.  She must be stimulated all the way through her orgasm or she will lose it!
After this, there is the cooling down period.  That is the part where you’ve cum, you may still be hard, but you are definitely not climaxing again.  Once again, women do not have a cooling down period!  They go back to the plateau stage.  This confuses men.  To them, the orgasm is the end game.  Once it’s achieved, the act is over.  For women, they’re just getting started.  Each proceeding orgasm is more intense than the previous.  Given proper stimulation, a woman can reach an “orgasm cloud” where her orgasms are so strong and so continuous, that they seemingly blend into one constant orgasm. 

The Resolution
After the cooling down period comes the Resolution.  This is the part where you’re blissfully snoring before the condom even comes off.  Since women don’t go through the cooling down stage, Resolution begins once stimulation has ended.  If you have satisfied her sexually, you have flooded her brain with endorphins, the happiness hormone.  That means she will be happier with you, less likely to be angered by your dirty socks on the floor.  Well, at least for a few hours anyway.



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